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How to get a church girl to fall in love with you
The spirit-filled women of this world want a man to love and cherish, too. Here is how to be that man.
And that is their love for God and the church. So what are the ways to pull church girls and make them fall in love with you? So as you might have guessed, your quest will involve a lot of churchiness and Christianity.
There are obvious tips such as joining the choir or generally just being a worker, going to church regularly, being a decent human being, loving The Lord, knowing how to play a musical instrument and all that good stuff.
But we reached out to Judith AKA Jay, a 26-year-old certified Nigerian church girl, and these interesting tips of hers look like a sure bet to getting that church girl to fall in love and walk down the aisle with you very soon!
1. Dress sharply
You actually can’t afford to get this twisted. Those lovely suits, well-starched native outfits and all other things people wear to church has to be on point all the time.
You know church is like one of the places where you see the sharpest suits in the whole of this life. So, fam, don’t slack on your outfit game.
These girls love the Lord, sure, but that doesn’t mean they don’t like a man who knows how to clean up nice!
Jay says: “Dress impeccably. Like, always.”
2. Be street smart
This world may not be the home of these church babes, but they are in the world for the time being and they surely want to have the best of life before they go be with the Lord. Of course, their idea of enjoying life is in a godly way.
Regardless, church girls don’t want you to just be spirit-filled without some street smartness about you. Haven’t you ever wondered why many of them don’t give face to those church guys that wear oversised shirts, over-sized pants and look too much and act too much like church guys?
Do you want a church girl to fall in love with you? Don’t be that guy.
Jay says: “Come to church with prayer in mind but give the feel of a somewhat bad boy; someone that knows what’s up outside God’s house.”
She adds: “Women like men that look like they could pastor the church and still hold their own in bed.”
We say: Wawuuuu! Just look at that!
3. Be reserved
It’s okay to love everyone as Jesus does but to get that church girl to fall in love with you, my man, you need to be reserved. Don’t be too friendly with too many people.
Jay says: “Don’t be in everybody’s face, or talkative. Girls [even church girls] don’t like guys that seem to be everyone’s friend.”
4. Project respect
You don’t need to have all the money in the whole world to pull a church chick. In fact, the church is probably where you’ll find the most babes who aren’t really about the money.
Even at that, you still need to project some class, self-respect and confidence. If not, those tongues-blasting chicks no go send you o!
Jay says: “If you are rich, you have scored a major point. If you’re not, act like you’re going to be Dangote sooner than anyone can imagine.”
She adds: “If you decide to give a testimony, Do it in correct and simple, understandable English. Do not have stage fright and don’t let usher drag mic from you.”
5. Be decisive with your moves
Jay says: Be straight to the point and act spirit-filled.
Then go for the jugular.
One day, sit randomly next to her in church. Give her a small smile and ignore her. Act as though sitting next to her is no big deal. Then [codedly check her out and] notice the little things you like or do not like in a woman.
If you like her [enough], sit somewhere close to her again the next time you go to church.
Find her and ask for her number.
You go from there.
There you have it, gentlemen. Do these five things and that sister of God won’t know what hit her till she’s beside you walking down the aisle!!!
Pioneering the Afro-gospel music genre in Ghana, Joseph Matthew is breaking down barriers and challenging stereotypes in the music industry.
In a recent interview with Metro TV, the talented artist boldly shared his thoughts on the rigid expectations placed on Gospel musicians in terms of dressing and style. He argued that it’s limiting and demeaning to condemn artists who don’t fit the traditional mold, simply because of their appearance or sound.
Using his own experience as an example, Joseph Matthew revealed that some gatekeepers in the industry have rejected him due to his dreadlocks and unconventional sound, which deviates from the typical Gospel music norm. He emphasized that what truly matters is the message of hope and redemption, not the messenger’s appearance or style.
Joseph Matthew’s courageous stance is a breath of fresh air in an industry often bound by tradition. He’s paving the way for a new generation of Gospel artistes to express themselves authentically, without fear of judgment or rejection.
Joseph Matthew also hinted in the interview that he has a virtual concert and an album up to come.
Watch the interview from below.
In the meantime, be sure to check out his latest single, “Promise Land,” a soul-stirring anthem that embodies the essence of Afro-gospel music.
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Big Rain: The Afrobeats Artiste on a Mission to Spread Love and Positivity Through His Catchy Tunes
As a rising star in the Afrobeats scene, Big Rain is spreading love and positivity through his music, leaving a lasting impact on fans and critics alike.
Christened Paul Raymond Osemudiame, Big Rain was born on June 12th, 1995, in the vibrant city of Ikeja, Lagos, Nigeria. His early life was filled with the sweet sounds of jazz, reggae, and gospel music, courtesy of his music-loving parents, who encouraged his passion for music. He spent hours listening to the likes of Fela Kuti, Bob Marley, and Michael Jackson, studying their craft and learning from their legacies.
Big Rain’s musical journey began in the church choir, where he honed his vocal skills and developed a deep appreciation for the power of music to uplift and inspire. As he grew older, he began writing his own songs, pouring his heart and soul into every lyric and melody.
After exploring the world of business, Big Rain returned to his first love, music, in 2023, and the result was nothing short of magic. His debut project, “Lifestyle,” released on November 12th, 2023, was a resounding success, garnering impressive numbers and earning him a loyal fan base. The song’s catchy beat and inspiring lyrics resonated with listeners from all walks of life, cementing Big Rain’s place as a rising star in the Afrobeats scene.
Since then, he has released five more songs, each one a testament to his creative genius and dedication to his craft. His music is a fusion of Afrobeats, R&B, and pop, with lyrics that speak to the human experience, love, and self-empowerment. With his unique sound and style, Big Rain is poised to take the music industry by storm.
Inspired by the legendary likes of Fela Kuti, Michael Jackson, and Bob Marley, Ray Jay believes that music should be a powerful tool for spreading love and goodwill. With this in mind, he has pioneered a sub-genre under Afrobeats, dubbed “Afrolove,” aimed at sharing love and positivity through his music. His mission is to use his platform to inspire and uplift others, promoting unity and togetherness through the universal language of music.
As we eagerly await his next release, “Sere,” dropping on May 18th, 2024, we can’t help but feel excited for what the future holds for this talented artiste.
With his passion, creativity, and dedication, Ray Jay is sure to continue making waves in the music industry and inspiring fans around the world.
Join the movement and connect with Big Rain on the following social media platforms to stay updated on his latest releases, behind-the-scenes insights, and exclusive contents.
Instagram – Big Rain
Facebook – Raymond Paul
Twitter – @BIG_Rain
Tiktok – @big.rain
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